Before Honour is Humility
      The natural tendency of man is to be proud and arrogant. This manner 
          of behavior displeases God. He calls on us to humble ourselves.      
          Humility is the opposite of pride. Honour is the exalted state of Man
          when his actions please God. It is impossible to please God when our 
          fleshly desires go against what the bible teaches.                   
      Lets start by stating the facts in scripture. Proverbs is a good     
          place to start.                                                      
      Proverbs 6:16-19 These six things doth the Lord   
            hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him: A 
            proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed 
            innocent blood, An heart that deviseth wicked   
            imaginations, feet that be swift in running to  
            mischief, A false witness that speaketh lies,   
            and he that soweth discord among brethren.      
      We are presented with seven things God hates. And notice that a proud
          look is listed first. God calls it an abomination. The other six items
          are all pertaining to the fleshly desires of man. Our focus is pride,
          so the other items on the list will be for another day. Lets look at 
          some other scriptures about pride so we understand the point.        
      Psalms 101:5 Whoso privily slandereth his neighbour,
          him will I cut off: him that hath an high look and
          a proud heart will not I suffer.                  
      Proverbs 15:25 The Lord will destroy the house of 
          the proud: but he will establish the border of the
          widow.                                            
      Proverbs 16:5 Every one that is proud in heart is 
          an abomination to the Lord: though hand join in   
          hand, he shall not be unpunished.                 
      Proverbs 16:18 Pride goeth before destruction, and
          an haughty spirit before a fall.                  
      Proverbs 21:4 An high look, and a proud heart, and 
          the plowing of the wicked, is sin.                 
      II Timothy 3:1-7 This know also, that in the last  
          days perilous times shall come. For men shall be   
          lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters,    
          proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents,        
          unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection,     
          trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce,
          despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, 
          highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of
          God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the   
          power thereof: from such turn away. For of this    
          sort are they which creep into houses, and lead    
          captive silly women laden with sins, led away with 
          divers lusts, Ever learning, and never able to come
          to the knowledge of the truth.                     
      Timothy really hammers the point home! If the scriptures aren't making
          us uneasy then maybe we need to read them again. God wants us to know
          that anything that glorifies self rather than Him should be abased.  
          Abased means "to be brought low". The opposite of abased is exalted. 
      Understand that when we feel proud or prideful in ourselves around   
          others, God looks at this with concern. In a sense we are putting down
          our human counterparts by placing ourselves above them. This is the  
          true nature of the flesh. While we might not think it is a big deal, 
          God has made it clear in scripture that he is no respecter of persons.
      We must analyze our behaviors towards others. Is what we are doing   
          right in the sight of God? Is it causing others ill feelings or hurt?
          It might be a good idea to use some humility even if our instinct is 
          to build ourselves up.                                               
      Now lets look at scripture from the correct aspect of humility instead
          of a proud heart.                                                     
      Proverbs 15:33 The fear of the Lord is the instruction
          of wisdom; and before honour is humility.          
      Proverbs 18:12 Before destruction the heart of man 
          is haughty, and before honour is humility.         
      Proverbs 22:4 By humility and the fear of the Lord 
          are riches, and honour, and life.                  
      I Peter 5:5 Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves
          unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to  
          another, and be clothed with humility: for God     
          resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the       
          humble.                                            
      Colossians 3:12-13 Put on therefore, as the elect  
          of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness,
          humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; Forbearing
          one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have
          a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so
          also do ye.                                        
      It isn't easy to change our fleshly tendencies. We all have a desire  
          to be competitive and strong willed. Some of us have gone through life
          being put down by others. Many more have been abused and betrayed. God
          understands what you are going through. There isn't anyone outside of 
          the love of God. Our aim in life is to please God at all costs.       
      There will be a reward in the end. Paul summarizes our discussion with
          a very important teaching from scripture.                             
      II Corinthians 12:7-10 And lest I should be exalted
          above measure through the abundance of the revelations,
          there was given to me a thorn in the flesh, the    
          messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I should be  
          exalted above measure. For this thing I besought the
          Lord thrice, that it might depart from me. And he said
          unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my   
          strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly  
          therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that
          the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore I take
          pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities,
          in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for
          when I am weak, then am I strong.                  
      God wants us to be humble. We need to be broken before Him and not    
          lifted up. When we exalt ourselves we bear record that we don't       
          believe what God said in his word. A few final scriptures to conclude 
          this message.                                                         
      Psalms 34:18 The Lord is nigh unto them that are of
          of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite
          spirit.                                            
      Psalms 51:17 The sacrifices of God are a broken    
          spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou 
          wilt not despise.                                  
      Zephaniah 2:3 Seek ye the Lord, all ye meek of the 
          earth, which have wrought his judgment; seek       
          righteousness, seek meekness: it may be ye shall be
          hid in the day of the Lord's anger.                
      Luke 14:10-11 But when thou art bidden, go and sit 
          down in the lowest room; that when he that bade thee
          cometh, he may say unto thee, Friend, go up higher:
          then shalt thou have worship in the presence of them
          that sit at meat with thee. For whosoever exalteth 
          himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself
          shall be exalted.                                  
      Written by Mark Dickens 05/27/2022